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Katie Cowan's avatar

For ages the hobby others did that I didn’t want to was drinking. It was so expensive - SO EXPENSIVE - and I just didn’t get enough pleasure from it to justify the cost, but it was part of normal socialising culture so for a while in my early twenties I thought I had. I used to feel pressure to join others in buying expensive drinks at dinners etc but at some point (after learning that alcohol can cause tiny short lived depressive episodes in some people (me)) I decided the whole game was not for me and just stopped. It is so nice.

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I hate skying so much, it is not hard for me to say no to it, but a lot of people still find it hard to accept. 3 years ago we did a family Christmas in the mountains because my sister was working there, and for the first time ever I loved it: I lead the group that hiked, read and cleaned the small rental while listening to music while the majority of the group was happily skying. It even gave the possibility to some people to say that they don't enjoy skying every day all day, and they stayed more often with me! I would not do that every year, but for me it is worth the money once in a while.

I went very slow on buying things for my yoga practice because it is easy to feel like you need so many things before starting and make it an expensive practice with clutter that you ended up using twice. I made it work with the clothes I owned and an old gym mattress of my husband for 6 months before upgrading and I was very proud of myself. Now I practice 4 times a week and ended up adding some small things, but only things that I really use.

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