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steph k's avatar

It took me DECADES to un-internalize the myth that I was at fault for not being able to afford my student loan payments. For a large number of people like myself who took federal student loans out in the late 80s and through the 90s, those "small" loans ballooned into something huge and unpayable thanks to compound interest.

Not to mention: I had paid on my loans for 10 years, then refinanced. Navient did NOT tell me refinancing started my 20 year payment limit count clock over, so I in effect wiped out 10 years of on-time payments. And got more interest dumped on my principal amount to boot. We don't know what we don't know, and it didn't occur to me to ask about the payment clock. In the mid 2000s, when I refinanced, loan servicing was the Wild Wild West; I'm sure Navient buried that important fact in the reams of legalese I had to read, but it was never made clear before I signed on the dotted line.

After paying my loans for almost 30 years (which was supposedly NOT allowed in my promissory note by the way), Biden's administration finally set that wrong right and forgave them. I had paid almost double what I borrowed at that point, with no end in sight since Navient didn't give one shit about counting my payments or acknowledging that I had long ago paid off my original loan.

All of this to say: NO ONE should feel shame about the inability to pay student loans back. It's a rigged game. (And let's not even get started on PRIVATE loans. Please, if you have the ability to not take those out, don't. Mine wasn't forgivable even in death. At least my federal loans wouldn't have impacted my family if I got hit by a bus).

The vast majority of student loan borrowers want to pay their loans back, and do so. But not at the expense of living a life, having health insurance, etc. etc.

If you have to play a rigged game, at least don't feel badly about it. STRETCH those payments out as long as you can, run your payment clock out, and keep your chin up.

And this isn't political: no administration has taken this on and made it right for ALL borrowers.

I wish everyone the best with their student loan nightmare. Take good care.

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Sherrie L Nicholson's avatar

I'm in my 60s so this article was enlightening from a different generation perspective. I have lots of medical debt that I really didn't sign up for. Perhaps you can provide ideas to not repay this debt?

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